get her to stay

RE: get her to stay

Hi,

I understand where you are coming from seeing a friend in a place where they wish to be or where they think they should be and completely disagreeing with their choice of actions and directions.The reality is though that however much you may not agree with them it is their right to make the choices they feel are necessary for them however wrong and glaringly obvious it may be to every one else around them. You may even be wrong !

They have to deal with the consequences of their actions especially when it involves others ie children.

All that any one can do is to be there for them with an open door and an open heart .

You can tell them exactly how you feel and how concerned you are but still let them know you are there for them if they ever need you.

There is no spell that is based in compassion and wisdom that will compel or force another to stay because then that would not be true love .It denies the freedom of choice to another to live their own lives though clearlyyou may be concerned about the chldrenand in that case you you would clearly raise those concerns as friends do who care about each other.

These circumstances are never easy and teach us so much about allowing others to make choices knowing perhaps we may be correct about the outcome.

The only spell I know of is of letting the other know you are there for them and that the love you have comes from the heart and the healing you may send them in your prayers and thoughts .

You may disagree but I know from my own experience about that lesson of letting go in order that perhaps they may come back.

All you can do is speak your own truth in this matter and take it from there..

And keep sending out loveand light and positive thoughts