Hello, wondered if anyone could help me with my situation...
i'm used to sensing presences so wasn't too bothered when i felt the presence of a man in my boyfriends new flat. My boyfriend felt him quite strongly too so we started talking about trying to contact him. I've used dowsing rods before so thought i would use them, before id even picked up the rods things were happening, i would just think of a question in my head and before id even thought it through the spirit would be giving answers. He was such a powerful presence and could physically express him self by moving things, i had never felt anything this strong before so i stopped. this all happened last night, then today i was more prepaired and sat down with my rods, he was most definatly there and willing to talk, he would answer my questions but he was addiment he didn't want to talk to me, but that he would talk to rob, but when rob held the rods or asked questions... nothing. I'm not sure where to go from here, he obviously has something to say, because he is such a constant and strong presence, but when it comes to it he goes quiet. I would persue it again at a later date, but all though he is not an 'evil' presence, he has been slightly physically over bearing on me on two occassions. so, im not really sure where to take it from here, its ok for him to be there, sometimes he has a kind of comforting ore to him, but the flats a bit too small for three of us, especially as we don't know who this third party is and what hes up to!?!?
any ideas/feeling/thoughts on the matter would be greatly appriciated!
thanx
xxx
RE: its not big enough for the three of us
My first thought is to do with courtesy, something we all should have and may expect from people and spirit, if i wandered into your home and messed about and was rudey you wouldn't tolerate it I hope.
You do not have to tolerate anyone in your home if you do not want to, and should you allow them then you have the right to insist on your rules being adhered to.
that might mean the person doesn't come just when they like but when convenient to you, it might be that they are not pushy or overbearing, visitors visit on your terms, your way or the highway in your house.
make that a confidnet decision from now on and things will get better, make yourelf clear and maintain the same expectations you would of me if i dropped around.
Hal