Ok i am going to starta topic of, for those who absorb and link in with other people very easily[sm=idea.gif]
I do on line readings and have alot of frineds online. Some of which I can link with strait away. These links are strong and I can pick up on feelings, emmotions, colours and sometimes objects.
Over the past few months these feelings and emmotions have become stronger. [sm=idea.gif][sm=idea.gif]
I have to be careful on how much time I spend on the Puter and talking with people as I find I absorb their negativity and feelings which then makes me drained.[sm=sleep.gif]
For those who have the same thing or who have experienced this, it may be hard for your to cut of from it, or familarize yourself with your own feelings to that of others. 😮
I have had to practice and make perfect an exersize I do before I know I am going to be working on the puter or talking with people.
Some weird and beautiful things have happened with this gift, which for I do not take forgranted[sm=1kis.gif].
Is there anyone here who has this
and how do u cope/manage it?
It be very interesting in how others work with the empathic feelings and instict, as well as others.
There are some things on my group under storys that u mat find interesting
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Love and Blessings
Dragon[sm=grouphug.gif]
RE: Emapths
Hi dragon, in a sense we are all 'empathic' because we are all capable of feeling.....and as humans gregarous by nature...
non - attachment is one of the golden rules of healing.....knowing whats within your circle and whats outside is the trick to knowing whats really yours and whats the other persons..
someone who has poor personal boundarys is likely to be highly empathic...and chances are they wont be to happy about it.
blessings, paul.
RE: Emapths
I couldn`t agree more, Paul.I used to have poor personal boundaries and used to pick up everyones feelings and personal ailments to the point I thought I was going mad, I didn`t know what was mine or someone elses.
I really had to work hard on myself to take a step backand be come less involved and feel a lot better for it. I know know what is my stuff and what isn`t,instead of feeling overwhelmed all the time.
Love and Light,
Stargazer[sm=idea.gif]
RE: Emapths
Its very nice being married to an empath however - whenever my husband comes into a room he knows straightaway whether I'm happy or not before a word has been said (or even a look exchanged). A cup of coffee and a cuddle often puts me back on the right track
He used to think 'what have I done?' if he found me in a bad mood - he's gradually learned that he's not responsible for my every change of temprament.
However, when he is responsible.........
C xox
RE: Emapths
Hi there everyone:)
Yes Lazthoss I understand complety. When my bf comes in or if i go and see my parents. I know whats what and whats not. Sometimes this can be draining, yet it makes me acknowledge things. I am also working on things so i do not get so drained.
Interesting comments there Wise Owl, thanks very much for your imput
Love
Dragon
RE: Emapths
I didn't understand that I was an empath for years and would get very distressed, angry etc after going through certain parts of London. Somehow the penny didn't drop!
Now I understand this gift better, I use visualisations for psychic protection regularly and feel I'm 'myself' again. It's an incredibly useful gift when healing as I don't need to question a client to know how they are and can project calming and soothing feelings into them through my hands.
Empaths don't really have an excuse for insensitive behaviour and we have a responsibility to maintain good psychic protection, so it's not all fun, but it is a present I'm grateful for.
love and light,
BV
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RE: Emapths
Hi there BigVoice
Yes I understand what you mean when U say when u go through towns etc
There are two places near to where Gareth and I live and I simply do not go there as it is soo negative. I get so drained If I have to go there for any reason. And I try my best to divert going.
The people seem so self obsessed. I know this sounds bad but this is how i see it. Working in amongs people ( nurs) i see it there often too.
Love
Dragon[sm=jump2.gif]