Hi everyone, Being very reserve by nature i have a very limited social circle, Though i have few friends but i meet them very often. Even in my community i have never met people for a long time. Even in my business i am having a problem in developing a good business network & relation. I want to get rid of this problem as soon as possible. Please suggest me the proper guide line to overcome this problem.
Hi
You dont stay exactly what you find difficult, but you might find that you need some training in Communication skills?
Alternatively, if you know what you should be doing, but feel that your lack of confidence is holding you back, some coaching might work for you.
I would really read How To Win Friends and Influence People. It is a good book. Some may not apply to your particular situation but the overall themes are very worthwhile.
Best wishes!
Thanks for your support. I had read these books before "How to win friends and influence people" and really helpful. I had made a commitment with myself to talk a little more than BEFORE :), with everyone i meet daily. This had really helped me and i am improving my communication skills too.
I had made a commitment with myself to talk a little more than BEFORE 🙂
You know what I was thinking - sure, talking more is always good but if you find that difficult - often listening more and showing interest helps. Most people like talking so if they see you have an interest in what they are saying, that you are listening, they continue talking.
Asking questions to let them continue telling you something makes them feel special and will make them like you as many people talk a lot but do not listen what other have to say.
Just an idea!