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Hi mariaob1,

Have you thought of making a time schedule for each thing you do in your life outside work? It may sound a daunting task, but I am sure you will be rewarded once put into practise.

hope this helps. 🙂

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patience and trust just allow a new picture to emerge on the empty canvas and ask GOD or great spirit to show you what comes next.

Love beyond measure

kim xx

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Hi Maria

I kind of agree with Kim on this one...patience...maybe time to stop trying sooo hard and let the Universe take care of whatever it is you need for the now

peace
stormdeva x

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Dear Maria

You who give so much to so many on matters spiritual and shamanic on other forums, and with such a wealth of knowledge - if there is a space between that and what you are now seeking for yourself - quite rightfully - how could you best bridge that gap so that everyone gains?

Holistic

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Maria

great to read your post on here and apologies for not coming back last night but Mondays are my late days for the Coaching Academy.

Anyhow, yes I know exactly what you mean by your words. Actaully that is a feeling that is often shared by so many people who in many ways are happy with life's situations but.... there is something missing, something that does not flow quite right, something difficult to pinpoint but still not there.

Allow me to make some comments to your posting with guess what... some questions (that is what coaches do best!!).

<I am feeling really confused at the moment>
Where do you think does the confusion come from? What does it look like> What does it feeel like? How do you know that you are experiencing confusion?

<I still feel as tho I am missing something! I need something and not sure what and am not sure how to go about finding it! >
Maria let me ask you some BIG questions here. What is the purpose of your life? What do you live for? What is important for your life? What motivates you? You see the answer to your questions may well be behind these my questions.

<I am really organised at work but can't seem to get that into my private life!>
Uhm, what do you think is the reason for that? What is causing you to be "not organised" at home? What can you do to change that? Who might be able to help you do that?

<I have these great ideas about things which seem to fizz out after a while!!!>
Well Maria it sounds as if you are a very "creative" person and I know what you mean because being one myself I experience the same situation at times. But there is a remedy. Have you tried to put down on paper all your ideas and then to give yourself some time to think about them? Think how you can turn them into reality, how you can "realise2 your thoughts and visions. What would you need to do? Who might be able to help you? Perhaps try the "Mind mapping" technique; I use it all the time.

<I am getting fed up of feeling like I am living in limbo and need some advice please!>
You have received some execellent suggestions already (remmebre that coaches do not give advice but they may forward some suggestions!!). More to the point, what does this "living in a limbo" look like? What does it feel like? In what sense you do not like it? What sort of "uncomfortableness" do you experience in those moments? And what can you do to change it? Who/what might be able to help you in this?

All the best maria and if you want to PM in confidence feel free to do so. I hope this helps. Take care.

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Hi Guys

Thanks for your comments [sm=grouphug.gif] I have been told by a counceller before thta she could not help me as I was too aware of my problems and would tell her things that she should have been telling me lol. I am feeling a lot better after ansering Alex's questions and I have come to the conclusion that I just need to sort out what I want to do in life and actively do it and finish things.

Alex

I will print out the questions and will PM you later!

with love