Hello ladies! It is good to see you people helping each other. I am a very shy person. I am very depressed from the last few months. A friend of mine visited at my home in the recent days. She told me about this forum. I thought to give it a try. My friends and family do not understand my feelings. They all are busy in their lives. I hope you people will understand my feelings. Because you all are also somewhat in the same situation. My husband is also not loving anymore. Please help me, ladies. I am a totally fertile woman. Still having an issue to get pregnant. It is my heart disease. What is the possible solution for me? I do not want to lose my husband. My family is also not behaving well with me. I am very upset. Need your love and support.
Hello, Have you talked this out with your husband? I mean, why has he stopped being intimate with you? What could possibly be the cause of his averting attitude? May be you can approach the topic directly by asserting that you want kids. And there on see how he responds. It might be so that he's not interested in producing children. In which case, you need to look at alternatives if it's your heart's desire to get pregnant. Love xx
It's a shame to hear that your family is behaving negatively to something like this. I hope when you say you're fertile, you say it with certainty and after full medical check-ups and such. I think you should look up therapies through your doctor and talk to your husband about this and ask him for his support and acknowledgment. I personally had to opt for surrogacy because that was the most viable option for my case, but please do consult the proper medical professionals so you can make the most informed decision about yourself and your situation. Good luck!
I am so sorry to hear your suffering and sadness. You did the right thing to join this group. You will get a lot of help, support, and suggestions from this forum. I would like to suggest you to kindly reconsult your dr. and still you can discuss the option of surrogacy. I hope you will get more helpful answers from other members too.
Hi Marie, I joined this forum recently and I am so delighted to see how people are so much empathetic and reassuring towards one another. We are always here as a friends to you. We women are sometimes going through such situations that we choose to remain quiet, but being silent is not always the answer. Since how long have you been TTC? Have you had a proper face to face conversation with your husband regarding this issue? Well the involvement of the family seems quiet patriarchal, you should justify your point. Have your doctor diagnosed the reason behind you not getting pregnant? I am sure you are perfectly fine and beautiful the way you are. In my opinion, get a proper checkup of yourself and your husband’s fertility. There are some ovulation medications you can take according to your doctor’s prescription. Even if the results are negative, try to opt methods like IVF, surrogacy. The success rates have vividly increased in the last few years related to these fertility treatments. I pray that you become the mother of your own kids and enjoy the beautiful bond of motherhood. HTH.
This can be so frustrating trust me I know.I was also an infertile woman but had lost my baby in an accident which left me somewhat infertile.So in a way, I know how you feel.I believe your heart condition is serious you should stop TTC for the sake of your baby and look for other options.Take care love and stay blessed byebye.
hey, there markmiz!.I am also confused as to where you might be living, if you are living in India I would not suggest getting your IVF done from there in any case.IVF cycles can be expensive and most of all time consuming and tiring, so if you are going to get it done to look for it Europe.Its a much better options.The rate does not vary that much.Take care love.
think more about yourself. Do not get under pressure. heart disease can really be dangerous in case you start taking the stress. We are always here to support you. You might get a child through surrogacy. You won't have to carry the baby. That way your heart disease will not stop you from completing your family. Think about my advice.
hi hun. how are you