Bed Wetting

This is familiar, being a mum. I am really sorry to hear this but ths situation can become a great opportunity for your child to understand that world does not change only your response to it can ever change.
The teacher should be made aware how her behaviour is affecting children and apparently it is not working...keep trying, fingers crossed.
In the mean time introduce emotional intelligence to your daughter. Which means recognising emotions in one self and others. And also to clearly distinguish that some one else's anger is their own. It is their problem and it is not easy for them either. It is a good opportunity for her to become aware that people can keep doing things because they have become set in their ways. It will also allow her to see that shouting is a response to something within the teacher rather than anything to do with her own (your daughter's) little self.
Once she can recognise that she is not a active participent in this senario, it will help her to become more detached.

Reiki is great. Anxiety seems to be manifesting itself in various situation. Children can be such little worriers. Hopefully it will iron out itself. These kids of new generation are so ready to learn all that life has to teach them, they are not hanging about. Try not to over worry yourself. Worry is catching
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This is familiar, being a mum. I am really sorry to hear this but ths situation can become a great opportunity for your child to understand that world does not change only your response to it can ever change.
The teacher should be made aware how her behaviour is affecting children and apparently it is not working...keep trying, fingers crossed.
In the mean time introduce emotional intelligence to your daughter. Which means recognising emotions in one self and others. And also to clearly distinguish that some one else's anger is their own. It is their problem and it is not easy for them either. It is a good opportunity for her to become aware that people can keep doing things because they have become set in their ways. It will also allow her to see that shouting is a response to something within the teacher rather than anything to do with her own (your daughter's) little self.
Once she can recognise that she is not a active participent in this senario, it will help her to become more detached.

Reiki is great. Anxiety seems to be manifesting itself in various situation. Children can be such little worriers. Hopefully it will iron out itself. These kids of new generation are so ready to learn all that life has to teach them, they are not hanging about. Try not to over worry yourself. Worry is catching
x

thanks for your reply..:), , i will take all you said on board..much appreciated.xx

Yes Sunrose the teacher does indeed need to know what she is doing and I would also tell your daughter that you will speak to the teacher.
In the meantime tap on your daughter at night or in evening when she is telling you about the teacher and how she is affecting her, she can then learn easily to tap on herself 🙂

Will pm you 🙂

The Indigo Flower essences are especially for children and were made with the help of children, and are wonderful to help children manage their emotional health.

Your daughter can even pick out the essences she herself feels she needs, she will know!

Hope things improve!

Hi Sunrose

I do think EFT would make a difference - [url]see here[/url]. You could also get [url]this book [/url]for children which has a dvd with rhymes to help them cope with difficult situations.

Hope the situation is soon resolved.

Love and Light

thank you all for replying..i did approach my daughter with eft ( iam learning myself) and she looked at me as though i had lost the plot:eek:

she didnt want to tap herself or for me to tap on her..:rolleyes: so i didnt push it..

not heard of indigo essences will look itup..

didnt get a pm star:( has it gone awry?..it might of cos i didnt get notification of CarolineN or Rosi1 posts..just yours..

Sunrose I was waiting for your little light to come up on facebook so we could chat,:D pm me when its a good time, am away Sunday and most of Monday but Tonight or Tuesday should be fine 🙂

Dear Sun-Rose,

I just wanted to say, remember that everything is connected and happens for a reason. You shared elsewhere about the void feeling you are getting. Your daughter is teaching you WHY! 🙂 Just look at what you wrote about her below. Not maybe something you do? Our closest family is also our closest mirror.

"she puts a hell of a lot of pressure on herself to be the perfect little student"

I know there is the thing about the teacher and there is nothing wrong about addressing that too, as long as you also look beneath the face value. That's how the universe works. 🙂

Dear Sun-Rose,

I just wanted to say, remember that everything is connected and happens for a reason. You shared elsewhere about the void feeling you are getting. Your daughter is teaching you WHY! 🙂 Just look at what you wrote about her below. Not maybe something you do? Our closest family is also our closest mirror.

"she puts a hell of a lot of pressure on herself to be the perfect little student"

I know there is the thing about the teacher and there is nothing wrong about addressing that too, as long as you also look beneath the face value. That's how the universe works. 🙂

hi..thank you for replying..i knew someone would flag this back to my behaviour and believe me when i say i have sat with that many a night...its hard to get across on here how things are but im not a simplistic creature:rolleyes: nothing is black and white...i am by nature an inquistive person , i watch and learn, i talk and learn , i listen and learn, i feel and learn ...sometimes i can see that one can be too close to a situation...but knowing what i know about this teacher there is a strong link....however it also could be just one of those things,,? im still working on it..thanks again..:)

i am by nature an inquistive person , i watch and learn, i talk and learn , i listen and learn, i feel and learn

Of course! The perfect little student! 🙂

Of course! The perfect little student! 🙂

perfect...yes:D,,,little ...no:p

Hi

I had a similar problem with my son (he was biting his nails). I talked with a teacher and explain him whats a problem and problem disappear soon.

HI..

just to update my daughter is tonnes better, the teacher went of on long term sick and the bed wetting slowed down and has now stopped!.. always trust your gut where your child is concerned, no matter what anyone says..result!