Hi all, I wonder if I can ask for love and peace for my friend whom has suffered from alcoholism for at least the last 15 years. we have been through so much together, and she has never managed to beat this disease.
She now has trouble with her liver, bowel, and goodness knows what else, and is due to a hospital appt soon to see if there is now ANYTHING they can do for her , she has had numerous bouts of Acecitis(sp) where the docs drain her stomach of fluid, but she may now need an op if she is viable.
please send her love and peace, and to let go, if her spirit and soul say she has suffered enough.
Thankyou so much, she has 3 boys( youngest 10), who need healing also, as her elderly parents(and her husband, even if I don't feel like sending it sometimes.)
Thankyou so much,
Love Echox
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Hi echo, I hope your friend finds the strength she needs to combat her drinking problem. Sending love and healing to her and her family at this cross-roads in her life.....lets hope she wins her battle with alcohol.
Oakapple xx
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Thankyou Oakapple,
for your kind words.x I reallydon't think that my friend will make it now, I pray that she has the strength to, but she has tried SO many times over 15+ years, that I think she has run out of options. Countless detox's, contless therapies, detox programmes, hypnotherapies, spiritual paths, AA, hospital visits, and still she can not give up.[&o]
15 years ago she was a beautiful woman, bought her own house, wonderful job, and 2 great chidren( she had another 10 years ago).
Now she is about 6 stone, lost control of her bowels, can hardly walk, cant eat without being sick, and it breaks my heart.x
I will hang on for her and not walk away, as so many of her"friends"have.
Thankyou to anybody who takes the time to read this, especially Oakapplex, and I wish you all happy times and love.
Echo.xx
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hi echo
i have a friend who also had a drink problem, not as serious as your friends but a drink problem nevertheless. it split her family her husband left her, and tried to take the children as well, with the help of her parents and some good friends she has finally overcome her addiction and has her life back on track.
I do hope your friend and yourself can eventually some comfort. XXX
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Thankyou Moonspirit, and Oakapple for your replys.
My friend attended a big local hospital on Friday, and they are willing to take her in ( for an unforseen period), and if they can get her health anywhere near viable for the major by pass op she needs, they will give it a go... if not ,wont be here on planet earth much longer.:(
I am praying they can give her this one major last chance.
I will take a day at a time.
much love , and thanks for the replys, hope your friend is winning Moonspirit,
love Echo.x