Can one be addicted to a woman who is bad for him? I think I am - and when I look at the situation rationally, I should not be so attracted to her, but I am.
Hi Steve,
Can you explain a little further, how is she bad for you and why do you think you shouldn't be attracted to her. Is this just an attraction or are you in a relationship with this lady?
Love & blessings,
Rachel
Hi Steve
Who said you shouldnt be attracted to her? No doubt yourself. Make a list of the reasons, then go through them and ask yourself. Is that really true? And be really honest. Is it really TRUE. E.g. I shouldnt be because she is married. It wouldnt really be true as there is no law that says who you should or shouldnt be attracted to. Make a list of things that you do find attractive about her. At the end I am hoping you will be able to make a choice about what your feelings are and even when you have acknowledged what is going on it is still your choice whether or not to act on it.
I hope that makes sense.
Sue x
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Rachel
she has had a 'sorted' past - and still is seeing her ex husband and admits that if her secon ex came around she would give in to him too. - among others. She keeps a list - she is a gemini and has two selves - one good and one not so good and admits this readily. there is more, much more to tell.
We have been together a few times - and have plans for a few more - she lives in a different city from me. but the thing is, we feel so connected to each other - it's errie almost - we think alike, we talk a lot, we've even said the same things at the same time. I've 'sensed' her before - only to call her then and find she was thinking, at that moment, about me in an intense way.